WE ALL TOLD YOU THIS WOULD HAPPEN

Ugh ok. So everyone warned you that this could take place. Literally every. Solitary. Individual. However you insisted that nooo, you’ll not fall victim to your classic rom-com trope where you fall deeply in love with your buddy with benefits. You convinced your self that you’d be ok with — nay, you DESIRED — casual sex without any strings attached. Emotions? Me? Never Ever!

Regrettably, as it happens that the planet ended up being immediately after all. Dammit! I am talking about seriously, who does’ve understood that making love with the exact same individual many times every week, cuddling together with them every Sunday would result in…actual romantic attraction with them post-coitus and telling them your deepest fears and ambitions, and getting brunch?

Now you do not have basic concept what direction to go. It looks like you can find just two methods this could easily end. Either they have the in an identical way you start a beautiful relationship full of unbridled bliss and happiness OR they don’t reciprocate and you probably won’t be able to see them ever again and you’ll hate yourself forever for ruining a perfectly good friendship about you and.

So can it be well worth the risk? Or do you stick it away and pretend those feelings are not there? Here you will find the actions that you ought to simply take as soon as you realize (with horror) that you have dropped for the buddy with advantages:

Have a break that is short them

Alright, alright. For them— just stop for a second and breathe before you do ANYTHING rash — like text them a 500-word essay where you confess your undying love.