Bondage bed room games require and imply a surrender of control, by the restrained partner towards the active partner. Jess claims it’s essential, consequently, to ascertain a protective word before beginning: ‘It means everyone understands that there’s complete rely upon the situation, and also you realize that just saying one word will minimize play immediately.’

The thought of a security word can be daunting: ‘Some folks who are complete novices might think, “If i would like a security term, this needs to be some actually scary play”, however it is not. We now have a protective word for all sorts of intercourse, and that’s usually ‘No’.